In my last blog, The Narrowing of Leadership, I wrote about how leadership can become confined within a single way of seeing, how a frame, once set, begins to limit what is noticed and what is allowed to be questioned.
I suggest that Rocky Mount’s City Council shows evidence of this tendency, and this needs to be addressed as part of our ‘troubles.’
There is the old notion that you are what you eat. I have come to believe you are what you read, because reading expands both place and time. Because I read I now have an imaginary salon filled with those I have encountered on the page.
Here are the men and women who have helped shape the world I’ve grown up in. I join them as I please. John Foster Dulles and his brother Allen have recently joined this distinguished group.
They both interest me because of their thinking. Their influence was not confined to decisions. but created the frame through which decisions were made.
Leadership is under a microscope in Rocky Mount, NC. I have been writing about what good leadership is. Reading The Brothers, has helped me to understand ‘more better’ how once a frame becomes settled, it no longer invites inquiry.
On the City Council we have heard more than once, “How dare you question.”
One of the defining ideas of my life has been that to whom much is given, much is expected. Many of our American leaders were formed under that expectation. The standard was not optional. It was assumed. We are paying the cost for the loss of this admonition.
The recent State Audit names the City Council for a lack of leadership and oversight. That is not a small matter. It speaks to whether the habit of questioning, of testing what is in front of us, is still possible.
Do you remember the story of the little Dutch boy, the child who placed his finger in the hole of a dike and held back the sea? The story endures because it speaks to responsibility. Someone noticed something small, and stayed when it mattered most.
Today, the atmosphere surrounding the Council feels less like a place of inquiry and more like a waiting room, where families sit hoping for good news. When every issue is approached through a single, settled lens, what should be examined is instead managed. What should be questioned is allowed to pass.
The little Dutch boy reminds us that leadership is sometimes as simple, and as difficult, as recognizing the moment when something must be held in place, a moment when something must be questioned before it becomes fixed.
When I count votes on the city council today I keep coming up with 5-2. How about using this majority to change the framework decisions are being made through. How about that vote count changing the way Rocky Mount does business. Try it, I know the voter would like that.
Stepheny Forgue Houghtlin grew up in Evanston, IL. and is a graduate of the University of Kentucky. She is an author of two novels: The Greening of a Heart and Facing East. She lives, writes and gardens in NC. Visit her: Stephenyhoughtlin.com
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How dare you ms. Stephany and will you in the mean time remind us all what Ruby was babbling about when he was begging for an apology from the taxpayers that pay all the bills and his salary and OIC? Why does anyone owe his enslaved ass an apology for anything. I will apologize to Ruby and Andre when Andre AK 47 picks enough sweet potatoes to feed the masses at Thanksgiving which will be never. Did somebody do something to them? If he does not like his current situation he can take his first love Dre’ and they both hit the curb. Both have no class or scruples and I am afraid have damaged this city beyond repair. That mayor needs to put some kind of detention or expulsion on Andre until ge learns how to speak to our taxpayers and fellow Jr. councilmen with as much respect as he demands. He should be setting an example not ridiculing and demeaning others. It is just so embarrassing for him to show how ignorant he really is. Maybe the best thing is for the state to take the wheel for a while because unlike our duffus mayor they will have the gonads to send his rude condescending ass home or atleast put some sanctions on him till he straightens his attitude out. The mayor is a pos because we watched Andre do the same thing to Mr Harris all last year and rubs never said a word. Truth be known maybe all of them need to go home because they have proven to be incompetent.
I’m glad you’ve joined me on my Main Street bench to add to the conversation about the state of the city council and in particular Councilman Knight and Blackwell. They have a whole lot of people, like yourself, up in arms. I do believe people have had enough. I hope this means CHANGE.
How dare you ms. Stephany and will you in the mean time remind us all what Ruby was babbling about when he was begging for an apology from the taxpayers that pay all the bills and his salary and OIC? Why does anyone owe his enslaved ass an apology for anything. I will apologize to Ruby and Andre when Andre AK 47 picks enough sweet potatoes to feed the masses at Thanksgiving which will be never. Did somebody do something to them? If he does not like his current situation he can take his first love Dre’ and they both hit the curb. Both have no class or scruples and I am afraid have damaged this city beyond repair. That mayor needs to put some kind of detention or expulsion on Andre until ge learns how to speak to our taxpayers and fellow Jr. councilmen with as much respect as he demands. He should be setting an example not ridiculing and demeaning others. It is just so embarrassing for him to show how ignorant he really is. Maybe the best thing is for the state to take the wheel for a while because unlike our duffus mayor they will have the gonads to send his rude condescending ass home or atleast put some sanctions on him till he straightens his attitude out. The mayor is a pos because we watched Andre do the same thing to Mr Harris all last year and rubs never said a word. Truth be known maybe all of them need to go home because they have proven to be incompetent.
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I’m glad you’ve joined me on my Main Street bench to add to the conversation about the state of the city council and in particular Councilman Knight and Blackwell. They have a whole lot of people, like yourself, up in arms. I do believe people have had enough. I hope this means CHANGE.
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